Ek Hath Dosti ka :D

                                    "Ek Hath Dosti ka"

     Ek hath dosti ka! The title of the blog means Friendship. Its a beautiful relationship created by god. Its not a relationship based on blood but only on thoughts and feelings. Its a relationship with no intentions. Friendship is beautiful.

      I have been making many friends since childhood age. Many left while many changed. I came to know that no one stays the same and no one stays the permanent. The give you good and bad moments. Friendship is a relationship to be enjoyed in the present with no thinking of the past and no worries of the future.

     Every friend I made was different. But this one friend I made was special, different, exceptional. In short a one and only one piece. Those days where tough, emotional, depressing. I had almost given up. Just when I was above to fall down in this tough and emotional time period, I meet this friend. 

  Every friend pulls you up from bad times and then motivates you to move forward. But this friend was different. This friend pulled me up and instead of motivating me made me realize my mistakes, slapped me hard with words when I sat crying on those mistakes and then made me move forward slowly one by one as if I am a small kid.

 From that day I realized that this friend was different, the bond was more stronger and it was going to be a tough yet beautiful path ahead. Time passed by the change got faster and the bond got stronger. Every boulder was pushed away. 

Times became good. Smiles lasted longer time, laughter was enormous, incidences where funny, chats were blushing, compliments were flirty, change was positive. Moments were priceless. Those every seconds spend with you, those every laughter shared, those every fights. Certainly the time of my life

I thank this friend, who has not just made me positive but made me trust on friendship again. I thank my friend for all those beautiful moments and all the amazing times(Good and bad) That have been shared. I thank this friend for making me live again, for rebuilding me. Also thank you for letting me learn new english words.

I dont know how long this bond will last, I dont know if we will be friends forever, all I know is I share the most strongest and the most deepest bond with this friend. Friendship is the present happiness and this happiness made my life beautiful. Thanks a lot dear friend for being there and for all these moments. 4 months back the journey had started. I wish to continue with this bond forever but destiny may have something else. That smile on your face will surely be priceless. Thanks a lot for everything. Lots of love with a tightest hug! <3 

Your Friend,

Aseem! ;)

Journey to Remember- 51DN Bombay Rajdhani Express.

                                 "Being a rail enthusiast, a rail journey is not just a journey to reach destinations, its a memory. A memory which I wont be able to forget till my last breath. "

                              Finally the day had arrived when I was going to board the 51DN now the 12951DN Mumbai Rajdhani Express after 10 years. Hectic schedule from 4months. Board Exams and entrances. Everyone deserve a break and so did I. Instead of sitting back at home, I decide to visit my relatives and decide to board the Rajdhani Express.

                                  

                            I reach Mumbai Central well before time. I saw the Premium Express getting ready to leave Mumbai bound for Delhi just 40minutes before time. My train gets shunted and on platform-1 of Mumbai Central. The journey was more exciting as I was booked in Air Conditioned First Class. My coach was H1. Getting settled into the Cabin as soon as the rake was shunted, I come to the door to see off my dad who was there to drop me.

                                   

                              The clock ticked 16:40hrs and my 51DN leaves Mumbai Central bang on time with Ghaziabad WAP7#30235 in lead. WAP7 is the most powerful locomotive on Indian Railways. Soon we cruise through each and every suburban station at a good speed and being in First AC I was expecting some top quality food service. Soon the snacks were served. Cheese Sandwich, Tea/coffee, cashews, gulab jamun were in the menu. Soon we leave Borivali the first halt for the mighty King. The WAP7 showed its true power and one of the best accelerations. We cruise through every station at flat 120km.ph after Virar. We were soon served soup before Surat. There were two options available one being the regular Tomato and one was Sweet Corn. We depart Surat the second halt for 2951 Mumbai Rajdhani and head towards Vadodara.JN Delayed by 12min.

                               Cruising at MPS we halted many times in between with full clearance. During that time we were served Dinner. One of the finest food on Railways. It consisted Paneer Capsicum, Aloo Gobi, Dal, Rice, Chapati's, Curd, Pickle, Ice Cream. Being aware of the fact that the food for passengers onboard 1AC is cooked onboard the food was upto my expectations. Soon as we finish dinner we reach Vadodara.Jn the third halt for the King. The halt was slated for 10min and we were running 6min behind schedule. But we waited for more than 20min. Soon the news was reported to the Guard that it was a loco failure. I soon get down and rush towards the locomotive which was to be coupled exactly at the other end of the train. While rushing past every coach I had set in my mind that it was going to be a Vadodara based WAP5 locomotive since they hold WAP5's and have them in plenty of number.

                                            As soon as I reach the other end, I saw a beam of light heading towards us and I was sure that the replacement locomotive had arrived. And then came the turning point of the journey. The most unexpected link powered our 12951 Mumbai Rajdhani. Ghaziabad WAP5#30011 "Navodit" which was the link of Trivandrum Rajdhani was given the duty to haul our Rajdhani. Seeing a WAP5 loco coupling to my train at Vadodara made me nostalgic when few years before this was a regular scenario. 

                                            Soon we proceed for Delhi and we faced a heavy delay of 1hour. Being the top most priority holder on the Mumbai-Delhi route we soon came to MPS and were ripping through each and every station. While in the meantime I make my bed, jump on the upper birth and go to sleep. I woke up at 2am and found that we were ripping through MPS again and then went to sleep again. Finally I woke up at 4 and we were at Kota.Jn the 5th halt for the King and Ratlam being the 4th. Now was the time for some amazing speed journey. We leave Kota at 4:10 in the morning delayed by 50 minutes. Soon we get back to MPS and now the MPS(Maximum Permissible Speed) was 130km.ph.

                                        Being the top priority holder we soon rip each and every station. Seeing me in the corridor for a long time, the guard which was in the next coach comes to me and asks me if I was comfortable, I soon tell him that it was too cold in the cabin and it was making me uncomfortable. With the attendant asleep and not listening to my requests I could not do anything but come out and make myself warm. On listening to his the guard was disappointed and he soon wakes up the attendant in rage and orders him to lower down the cooling. Soon I am on my berth again. But with the sun rising up, I couldnt control myself and I walk out again and open the door. The early morning water droplets smashed my face as if they are some stones and there I came to know that we were hitting 130km.ph . We rip through each and every station, each and every curve, each and every bridge, each and every Level Crossing. Just slowed down on stations which had PSR(Permanent Speed Restrictions ) and TSR's(Temporary Speed Restriction). We soon reach Mathura.Jn and skip slowly at 6:56 hours in the morning. Kota-Mathura flat 2hours:46minutes with an average speed of 117.10km/ph . One of the best runs of 12951 Mumbai Rajdhani.

                                    We were served the morning tea/coffee and with special request we were able to have the Pantry made Masala Chai(Tea) which surely woke up everyone. As we cleared Mathura we gain speed and hit back to the MPS speed as well. At Vrindavan Road we cross the fastest train on Indian Railways Bhopal Shatabdi hauled by WAP5 locomotive. We were soon served the first course of Breakfast which had Cornflakes and fruits in the menu. 

                                 After finishing the breakfast I move out of my cabin and adjust myself on the door again with my camera. After ripping each station at MPS, we slow down at Rundhi Outer. I soon see an WAP7 approaching us. As we approached the LC, LGD WAP7#30345 hauled Karnataka Sampark Kranti Express crossed us. We crossed Rundhi as a snail pace. Maybe a TSR or an open level crossing. As soon as we started to gain speed, I head back towards my cabin for the next breakfast course. The breakfast had Hot Breadcutlets, Hot and Crisp French Fries, Orange Marmalade, butter and tea. We rip through Asaoti at 140km.ph running bang ontime. 

            

                        Running ontime, we soon were given the third line from Faridabad till Okhla. We cleared every station at a moderate speed and crossed H.Nizamuddin at a good speed. We were about to end our journey really soon. We pull in New.Delhi railway station at sharp 8:40am delayed by just 5minutes and covering a total delay of 55minutes. Hats off to all the controllers, to all the crew and the coach attendants for such a memorable experience. Walking out of the station, I quickly turn around with a feeling to board the train for another journey but it was time to get going. :)

        

                                   

Its an era of "Pout Faces"

                            It's an era of "Pout Faces"

           21st century has lead to inventions of not only technology but also socially attracting things. Yes for me I can term the 21st century the era of "Pout Face" or you can say the duck face.

           For people who believe in explanation through definition, here's what google says about the "POUT"

"A term used to descibe the face made if you push your lips together in a combination of a pout and a pucker, giving the impression you have larger cheekbones and bigger lips."

"Oh christ, look at that horrific duckface"
"Stop doing that duckface. You look stupid"

     I agree to the above given example. Pout face eh? In this generation most of the pictures I have seen are of a pout face. Why to spoil a good picture? Why not show your natural beauty? Is it because you dont have one or is it because you are stuffed with one? I mean a beautiful picture gets spoiled because of a pout. Because its not natural. 

  

       Like the above picture. Just look at her. She's so beautiful. But the pout spoils it? Example of stuffed beauty? Hahaha. Can be. PS- No Harsh feelings madam, just expressed my thoughts. But you really look beautiful without a pout. :) Lets get back on the topic. As I said a natural smile or even a random pose would have done the magic which is done by a bottle of shiraz wine. 

   

            Wow :O Found something unusual. According to the scientist the pout makes women feel more younger.

Link to the article- http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/beauty/article-1243038/Plump-pout-Bee-stung-lips-make-women-younger-say-scientists-heres-look-swell-.html

            Sight of relief for those women who strongly opposed my blog and my thoughts from the beginning also have a valid point to challenge my topic. Hahaha. Why be fake? when your natural beauty does the magic no one else can do. :D 

                       

                    In today's time. New inventions come with some trolls. Found some on google. 

           If we have a look at the above picture properly. Compare a pout picture. You can see the difference. Having noodles also forms a pout on your face. So is pout related to noodles? Hahah? Was the inventor of pout having noodles while he/she thought of something new? Well is this the story behind the history of pout? I guess no. This was just a random assumption. Rest great stories are better untold.

            Making a pout face or lets say a perfect pout face is not an easy task either. Takes a lot off effort. First try to match your pout with your hairstyle. Then try to make your pout perfect. Try to analyze the editing. Try to make it better then others. Requires hardwork and a phone with a big memory space. But in the end the results are somehow like this

        I rest my views on the "Pout"

      One last Message for all

         Ladies and Gentlemen,     

                                                         It is always said that you look the best and you reflect your personality when you are natural. Don't be fake to others because in the end you fake yourself.

Peace \/
(C)Aseem Jindal 

"Just a second to change your life"

                           "Just a Second to change your life"

                        Life is a series of ups and downs and it takes a second to get your life off the track, get it to a new phase to a new sunshine to a new darkness. We never know. Misunderstandings are the root cause of the life getting off the track. Misunderstandings has affected life of many people. People who were once so important are now of no importance. Misunderstandings just take a second to change your life.

     

                         Well it maybe acceptable to someone but everyone cannot accept the fact that the golden thread of friendship is disturbed by a misunderstanding. People cannot accept the change which has occurred in a second. It takes a long time for people to accept the change and move on. A change is not always negative, it may also be positive. It depends on the way you accept the change and move on. Sometimes the change also leads to enmity between two people who once loved and cared for each other.

                         The change can be negative as well as positive but every change in life makes you more mature reveling the true fact of life. We loose our friends and our relatives that's just because life wants us to get matured and it teaches us a lesson that "In the End its just you who faces the death".

 

It was like Yesterday.....

                               "It was like Yesterday....."

                     "It was like yesterday you were there with me

                       It was like yesterday you surprised me

                       It was like yesterday you hugged me

                       It was like yesterday you sang songs for me

                       It was like yesterday you made me sleep in your knees

                       It was like yesterday you blessed me

                       It was like yesterday you scolded me

                       It was like yesterday you came shopping with me

                       It was like yesterday you and me watched a movie

                       It was like yesterday I saw your eyes filled with dreams for me

                       It was like yesterday you kissed me

                       It was like yesterday you stood besides me

                       It was like yesterday you loved me

                       It was like yesterday which is today a dream for me

                       It was like yesterday and a year has passed and so quick so fast

                       Life has changed a lot, but the tears which stream down through                          my face never stops"     

Its all about the "Hmm"

                                 The "Hmmm" Word

                People living in the 21st century live a very busy life. Their life is so busy that they do not have time to understand someone's feelings or impress their's. The life is also a fast moving one. But thank God there is a bit of humanity and emotions which is equal to the alcohol percentage required for our body maybe around .2%? Not so sure about it.

                   To make the life easy and applying the live and let live quote in one's disturbing life a three letter word which can be extended upto as many number of letters you want. A word or an expression which describes almost all kind off emotions. The word "Hmm" A small three letter word or an expression which can certainly disturb the peaceful and relaxed brain of a person. It is irritating to some while it proves to be useful to others. For me it is irritating and makes the expressions lazy.

                         Hmm describes many emotions such as hate,anger,love,respect,care blah blah. A simple shortcut because all these words are 3+ letters and in today's life no one has the time to speak out a 4 or a 5 letter word. They don't even have proper time to take care of their family, how will they be able to speak a 3+ letter word and waste their precious time.

                                 And who will waste their time on writing or explaining thesis on these emotions, so a simple irritating and useful word "hmm". The expression and the meaning of hmm depends on the type of problem you share.

                                 Not to be surprised, "Hmm" is also an official word. WoW. So much hmm around us and still people don't give a hmm about it. For me it is irritating and people who do not have time or are selfish use the word Hmm the most.

                                       And in the end- 

hmmmmmmmmmmmm

hmmmmmmmmmmmm

hmmmmmmmmmmmm

I am not selfish but I am crazy

Happy Reading and Peace \/

                     

                      

                 

Guilt and Expectations

                                 Guilt and Expectations.

       Guilt and Expectations. Two words every person faces the most in his/her life. Interrelated words. Expectations lead to Guilt. They have destroyed lives of many but on the other hand they are the best teachers who make you learn a lesson. They are the phases of life, which make you stand on your feet after you fall.

         

Expecting is not a crime. When the expectations are not fulfilled, it leads to disappointment. Expectations are a part of human feelings and emotions. Emotions are a part of life and so are expectations. 

       

Expectations in love, expectations in friendship, expectations in a task, expectations in a education, expectations in promises, expectations in trusting, expectations in respecting, expectation in believing blah blah blah. A long list of expectations, probably which would be more than the number of friends one has. Expectations are the best teachers which make you learn a lesson. If not now, then the next time or maybe the next to next time, but one day the make you learn the lesson of life and make you learn the importance of yourself, make your emotions and feelings strong and will help you to choose correct person in the upcoming future.

   

 Interrelated to Expectations is Guilt. With a scientific definition it is a state of mind which leads to depression but with experiences, guilt is when you are effected so much that you start blaming yourself even if you are not at fault. Too much expectations lead to extreme guilt and guilt destroys ones self confidence and self respect. It is a part of human emotions. A Guilt is the worst emotion. Blaming yourself even when you are right is the grenade which booms away your self-confidence and love for yourself. 

    

Its you again who built up yourself and your self-confidence. Life is not easy my dear readers, expectations and guilt are just a part of life which come and go, the moral is to trust yourself and love yourself the most. The more you expect and the more you face the guilt, the more you realize that "You are the most important person in your life"

                                                                                                                                         
 Thank You,

                                                                                                                                          (C)Aseem Jindal

        

Adios Gundecha(Part-2)

                                The moment of tears here arrive when the principal Mam addresses us for the last time. She has always been a motivation for student and has always been friendly to all. The results arrive for the final round of the Mr and Ms Gundecha competition. Everyone hold their breath, all with a tension on their face but an excitement inside them. The clock ticks ticks and the results should be out at any moment. Finally starting from the second runner up boys we had Anmole and from the girls we had Priya Darshini. Within seconds we had the results of the first runner up boys we had Deepankar and girls we had Rhea Rachel Singh. The audience hold their breath, the atmosphere was getting all tensed up, finally the results of Mr and Ms Gundecha are out. For the Mr it was Sanil Bhinde a well deserved person and for the Ms it was Sakshi Mishra. Oh Boy I bet this was the best gift she would have got on her birthday.

                           The last performance was done by our very own singer, Noyonika. Well emotions could be felt in her voice and the one which where flowing in our heart. And in the end a wonderful song sung by Harshdeep where he proved that, emotions are the one that matter and not the tune of the song. A performance which touched our heart.

                         Farewell- A memory of pictures
                                         A memory of tears
                                         A memory of laughter
                                          A memory of smiles
                                         A memory of excitement
                                         A memory of hugs
                                         A memory of life.

                         The farewell thus came to an end with the flying of candle kites. Well in the end, we have got the best possible juniors and yes the best teachers in Gundecha and the best year of my life.
A special thanks to all the juniors, Rudrashish and Shikhar for making this night a memorable one.

Adios Gundecha!(Part-1)

                          As days passed on, we all where excited to wear suit for the farewell day. While we had a feeling of excitement on one side of our heart, a feeling of tears and emotions was building up as the day where getting over and finally the day came where we had to say bye to friends, the building and Gundecha my college.

                         22nd January 2014,  Farewell- Glow in the Dark, all boys are in the suits dressed up as perfect gentlemen and all girls are in the saree dressed up as perfect ladies, me and my gang of friends we all reach their by 4:30pm as we were given strict warning about the timings by our juniors. Haha all dressed up as Gentlemen we all march towards the college through the same old road leading towards it for the one last time with cracking jokes and making some priceless expressions.

                         We reach the venue gate just 10min prior to the given time, we take the batches which where hanging on the rope with our names written on it. Behind those batches where our special qualities, the qualities which described us perfectly, for me it was "Sensitive" . Well yes I am a sensitive person and my juniors know me quite well.

                         We where soon given the glowing neon bands and some funny looking headgear to enhance the theme of the farewell- Glowing in the Dark. Just as we chatted, we had the special person with us, Sakshi. It was her birthday today and all sang the Happy Birthday song as soon as she entered, a moment to cherish.
       
                        After some quick photo sessions in the Saraswati Area we then proceed to the venue of the Farewell, the Gundecha ground. The basketball court all decked up with balloons and some cool decorations, we soon catch our seats in a rush. It gave us the feeling of playing the game Musical Chairs.

                      As the time passed by, I found myself a chair with the friends from my Electronics batch. Nikhil,Raoul,Anil,Charchit and Ankur. Sayalee was a guest appearance. As the flow of excitement in our body was increasing the shows for the night begin.

                      The first performance was a beautiful song sung by the juniors and oh look whom we have there. Shikhar Rastogi. An amazing music composer, singer or in short a music masala guy. He is our senior who passed out 12th in 2013. The band consisted of one of the best group. Dikshita, Dev,Ajinkya and Shikhar, beautiful performance. Hats off for beginning this evening in the musical way.

                     Soon we got a glimpse of a dance show performed by juniors. Well a good dance with awesome co-ordination. Really it was a treat to watch their performance. Aha soon there you go we where treated with another dance, this time a solo one performed by Dikshita. Well you are an allrounder dear. Its a treat to eyes to watch you perform.

                     Taking a break from the performances, the host Anika soon called up the 30semi finalists selected for the round of the title of Mr and Ms Gundecha Competition. They where asked some out of the box questions and dont be surprised all the students with no difficulties impressed the judges. Good job everyone.
 
                   Soon after the competition, the show begins. Wow and here we go, we experience the best performance of the night. It was our seniors Rudrashish and Shikhar one of the best musicians. With a combination of 7songs we experience one of the best mash up songs. Well yes it was the best performance of the night, and thankyou for coming and surprising us. "Farewell mein chaar chand lagadiye"

                  Everyone present there where now in a cheering mood expecting the next performance to be awesome and yes it was awesome. The dance of the evening. Good job juniors, you stood up beyond our expectations. It was a good dance, but to be true, co-ordination could have been improved but never mind, we all where busy for cheering you up.

                

Blessings- Your Soul's Temple

              We all have heard that- After every bad time there comes a good day, well did we ever bothered to discover that the energy and all that stamina we get to battle the bad time.? Where do we get from? I guess no, because we never experience the blessings. Blessings are your souls temple, and I guess one cannot experience blessings at that time and at that moment.

                         These blessings not only help you in fighting your bad days but they also help you to accept every fact of life. People who bless us the most when leave their body, they settle down in our souls because they are not those who bless us, but they blessings themselves.

                    

                           Yes, its true people who leave you, are the ones you miss a lot. But if you don’t find them here and there, just close your eyes and with all the good memories you did spend with them, just look down your soul, you will find them. You will find them cheering up for you, no matter how much you are sad or happy because souls have no emotions, they are just temples for blessings which cheer you up, each and every breath of your life

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                          Look around you, you find people who bless you everytime, but when you don’t find them, just look inside your heart and soul, you find them over there. They settle down in your soul, in your memories, because they come so close to your heart that they cannot leave you.

                             Yes, tears flow through our eyes, because we are emotional people, but if you cry, you hurt not only yourself, but all those blessings that reside in your soul. I know speaking is easy but when it comes to experiences one cannot handle it.

                             Just one thing- “Remember those who where with you, because remembering them from your heart, will truly reunite you again”