Monday, 30 December 2013

Flashback "2013"- A Year of joys and sorrows. (Part-1)

                                      So finally another year comes to in that is 20"13". A quick review through the year 2013- A Year of Joys and Sorrows.

                                      It all started on the night of 31st December 2012 when all my family members where having a countdown 10,9,8,7,6,5,4,3,2,1 it was 00:00 in the clock and we knew that its a new year and its 2013. We all wish a happy new year and take blessings from the small temple in our kitchen. What a wonderful start it was to 2013. Days past and all was going good. One fine morning the first sorrow of 2013 had shocked our home. My grandmother a beautiful and a gorgeous person suffered her third heart attack. Chances of survivals where less this time as it was just 10% of the heart in function while the rest was damaged. On the 28th January 2013 she passed away in pain. The first death in our family. It had shocked everyone in the family. Life settled slowly and slowly and we all where back to our regular routines.
                                    Soon the family was blessed with the news of my cousin sister getting married in summers. A wish we all wished for. The shopping and packing was in full swing. Excitement was flooded in our souls. Smiles had settled down permanently on our faces. Words where less to script down our joy and happiness. Soon we fly to the venue for the marriage. It was my Nani's place. My summer hang out. We cousins reunite there every summers and this time it was a special occasion. We soon get so engrossed in the functions and celebrations that we just forgot about our health. Finally the day had arrived, my sister was getting married, a big day for us. Dressed up like grooms and brides. We arrived on the occasion. Soon all those ceremonies take place according to the time period and everything was the going fine.
                                   One fine day after the marriage, the biggest shock not only of 2013 but of my entire life had broken up into pieces. My mother, my soul suffered a brain hemorrhage. We lost the time of treatment and she soon entered into the brain dead stage from where a person cannot return to his/her senses. This news was kept away from me for many days and I was informed that she has suffered a mild hemorrhage and is now recovering. But still not satisfied from this news, I use to get tensed, bath in sweat,wash my face with my own tears as I was kept away from discussions and planning about further actions. One fine day with the eldest family member present there took out the guts whispered in my ears and said that "Your mom will never be back, she slept forever". These lines not only shocked me but I felt myself as a body without a soul. Soon after a few days, I bid farewell to my mother as she knocks the doors of heaven and gets accepted there.
                                  Broken down in tears, My father and me return back to Bombay our home town with my Bua accompanying us. Our neighbors and all closed ones in Bombay broke down in tears as no one was agreeing to what has happened. God, how faithful and how loyal was my mother to everyone. Right from members of her bhajan mandly to those who have worked and known her, all where down with tears.
                                 But as they say you meet people who are your happiness in your bad days. I not only realized this quote but I felt this. Support given me by my friends, known and unknown. They even visited me to give me some moral support. I still remember that day, Raoul,Sakshi,Anil,Nikhil,Sayalee,Purujeet,Teneysha,Rhea,Shrushti,Simran,Charchit. Many of those whom I never interacted with or never talked to them. Angels of Humanity and friendly nature. I would thanks them, they never left me alone even for every possible thing. With support from Family and support from friends, I was finding out easy to move on.
                                 All where there for my help, a feeling of tears and joy, which cannot be expressed. I soon encounter with happiness and all those fun I had with my favorites, Sudin,Siddharth,Ishan,Sauvik,Parth. Not even a second where they made me feel lonely. All of them, angels with golden heart. They have helped me in my each and every moment of my life. They have helped me to move away those boulders which I was facing in my life.
                               It was my birthday that day, day started off with a emotional start. Missing those two ladies who had enjoyed my birthday the most in my life. First birthday without them. But again as they say, friends are friends. True friends, all those moments and all those wishes, one of the best birthday celebrations in my life.
                               I soon come across a friend, a special one, the person I trusted the most, three of them actually, who helped me to face every fact of life. One of them, a railfan and a senior person to me, Anil Kumar. One of the best person I have ever come across in my life. Not only a beautiful writer but also a faithful friend and one of the best person in your company. Always motivating, he gave me a moral support by helping me out and cheering me up.
                              One of my second friends, Sauvik. Hahahaha, we fight like mad people, always welcome each other with abusive words. Hahaha but other than that, he is the best person in my friend list. Always motivated in my life, not only by big long explanations but also by his shitty sense of humor. Hahahaha. A big big big support to me. "Sauvik though you are such a big A**Hole and a big J*rk, still you are the best when it comes from heart. PS- I am such a liar, Hahahaha. Jokes apart
                             Aha there you go my final, and the best girl I ever had as my friend. Aastha, you have not only been a motivator but also a friend who has helped me to tackle hunger, Hahaha teaching me many dishes, from Pasta to Halwa, from Soup to Custard. Hahahah. You are one of my favorite person and I respect you a lot, and how can I forget, all those chocolates I have given you. You are a friend for whom I cant script down my views and my respect for you.
                              And as they say, as the life goes on, we should also move one. Many days came and went. I come across many new friends. My Juniors. A good company to have. Some of them are Harman,Priya,Yukti and Prithvijit. Soon I come across the best memory of 2013. The Dandiya Night.
The excitement cannot be expressed in words. The best time I had with my friends,teacher. Hats off to the Gundecha Education Academy Alumni Association. Member I want to personally thank, Mridul,Sanil and all those all those people making it such a beautiful evening. I had the best time spent with you guys.
                              Well thats all for the first part of Flashback "2013"- A Year of Joys and sorrows.
                               Second part to be written soon.

2 comments:

  1. Writing down feelings from the bottom of the heart is hard enough but writing them and sharing it to the world is different..... thumbs up bro beautifully written...

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